Can Love Cross Boundaries?

How bad can it get? So good a question to ask, but what if answered:

How good can you make it? It feels better that way. We ever wonder, and we always are trying to figure out, What is love? Really?

I get inspired when I try to answer this question; Yes, LOVE is a feeling, from the simplest definition, but then that does not tie up what it really is! Just like; a human being’s existence dwelled entirely on God’s feelings; that the world needed a being that would take care of it; so does the existence of love! “Love exists as a personality” When one is loving, he/she automatically accepts a second personality in his/her life; and so when I am in love, I, Ralph Pius Okado exists as the Ralph person that God created and simultaneously, as the Ralph person that Love inflicted. When two people come to love, it means that they entirely share the love personality, i.e. the love person that one is, completely matches (is the same) with what the other person is. And this is what really defines TRUE LOVE; that in our dual world, I feel the same way you do. This means, a love relationship involves three personalities: The two lovers and the combined love personalities of them. If this is the case in your relationship, then you two have what we always wish for; True love. The other case happens when one of the two parties is left to entirely carry the love personality alone; fine, there still are three personalities but only one partner has the love inflicted personality; this is never love, and in most cases, it is infatuation. Unfortunately, the affected never realizes till its too late and it thus leaves one a scar on the heart!  Another deviation is usually when two people with two different love personalities mistakenly get together: This is a relationship with four personalities. It at first sight looks like True love, since it also originates from the same passionate feelings for the other, but as time goes, the two love personalities begin separating, (usually evidenced by unending misunderstandings, suspicions, open and calculated lies, and  mistrusts ). The good thing with it is that; this relationship can be tamed into true love; only if the individuals get serious with what they feel, and narrow their different love personalities into a single love personality! They always get a reason to stay together! I believe there is no love where there only is two personalities, it will never happen unless in infancy! Also, remember, Love is stupid and queer; for, “A Dog in Love, Smiles to A Playing Cat” Seize it before you Exercise it; it can make you Trip!