COULD SINGLE MOTHERS BE TIGHTENING NOOSE ON THEIR BOYS NECKS?

When media mogul Rupert Murdoch was hiring criminals (according to Gordon Brown –Former British PM) and playing phone hacking games, he didn’t know he was hammering the last nail on his newspaper’s coffin. This he did in order to get catchy and mind boggling headlines for his paper.

It got me wondering, whether single mothers could be modeling into Mr. Murdoch’s outfit. And may be it’s only a time bomb that cuts link between success and demise similar to that of Mr. Murdoch’s 168yrs – Old fallen tabloid.

Past three decades ago, our society had some sanity and families were sober too. We used to breed beautiful girls with chocolate complexion, Natural breast, wasp-like waist, well and naturally arched feminal curves, Natural hair, innocent looking amber eyes and an always pleasant smile that shone on their faces. Likewise, we were not, short of Athletic, well-built man-like men that graced village parties these girls in attendance too.

Those days happiness was not foreign and neither was peace. Every boy and girl was answerable to his/her respective family heads. Every boy could persevere for as long as it could take the girl’s father shed his organ’s waist on his head, while hiding in a nearby bush. And weddings were a source of joy and a lasting hope that super ceded the fairly exorbitant dowries.

But as days tickled, months eroded and years passed, societal morals slowly died. In present age a considerable percent of mothers are single. An even bigger number of men are not married and those in it, their in a sorry state what could have gone wrong?

There’s a story that attracts more pity than sympathy. Mother’s created a beast impression of man to their daughters. Many faces that changed with time & came with bounded notes for mama, turned little girls’ material envious.

Soon, they’re turn to marry arrived but they proved smarter. First they picked the right gene from the preferred sperm donor with another three-man bench chamber revolving around her life. She later did little to knock out the donor reasoning that freedom and a husband could never sail in the same boat.

I remember young boys of our time comparing anything mighty and strong to their fathers. But these boys had none and instead they turned to their mothers. For the rich ones, they believed their mama was all and has since grown to oversize puppets that lacks a man’s steel ness and could only be useful to nestle scientist to determine the effect of their laboratory-made products. The other class in poverty was even worse.

What with the mother struggling to make ends and more often than not with swinging moods. These boys grew with no boldness and confidence characteristic of, and so vital in man. Perhaps synonymous to the now common half baked graduates.

Mothers locked up their boys while leaving for work, turning them social wrecks. Their freedom of expression/association was curtailed to curb bad influence and their only solace was Television. Perhaps explaining their misguided and ideal view of life as presented on this TV’s. Only to be shell-shocked just like proverbial Westerners on arrival to Cairo and met Architectural master piece far from comparison with the Architectural deception in their home countries.

Another time came when they were laughed off by their peers. And in an effort to toughen up themselves they resorted to hard drugs. Some went for pornographic materials in a bid to know the art of being ruthless. Others realized their music talents and even went ahead to organize music concerts all around. They dubbed them yummy titles such as one night stand, swaggerific concert e.t.c.

It’s here, on the stage-under influence of drugs-, they stripped naked- their already half naked sisters-who too have sons at home-,doing unprintable acts on their medicated backs and vomiting meaningless, nauseating chatter from their mouth. All this done in front of flashing cameras and bright lights with no cause to wink their eyelids.

At last we have ended in a desperate situation. Even the sperm donor threatened to extinction. But all is not lost.

Take it from me mothers, you did a great job in supporting us to realize our dreams, but a stable father is indispensable in getting the man you desires out of your son. Take it from me fathers your sons desperately needs you to make them men that yours fathers made you.

God too doesn’t desire divorces for the good of all in the family father, mother and children. The law may not be against this and may even give you consent but the grace of God will surely Judge you.

And for you home breakers, I think its time you marry yourselves off to cows, goats, camels or even donkeys in arid regions or else hell’s venom will wait with much eagerness.

             

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Many years ago before mama passed on, I overhead her telling another woman SHE HATES men so much and made me afraid. I wondered whether he hated me since I was growing to a man but I have come to learn there’s nothing as sweet as a single mothers Jealously Guarded love to her son(s).

The other day my 4 years old cousinwho calls every man daddy-, knocked me off with laughter after watching something on Telly. Ms Nancy Barasa (DCJ) was wearing a dress similar to one her mum bought two weeks ago. The C.J. Dr. Mutunga was sitting next to her and the little boy came to the erroneous conclusion he was his daddy. He started wailing since he was not responding to his demand that he buy for him “Gari ya borithi (Police car). God be with you.